I came across this post and I urge you to read it with an open mind. It is not judgmental, it is an eyeopener by Okechukwu Ofili.
So a few days ago, I wrote an article titled Virginity Is Overrated and boy did I get criticized for that article!
People told me that they will not read my blog again, some said that I was promoting promiscuity and many said they were disappointed that I would use my platform to bash good moral values. So after much pressure … I have decided to apologize for …. absolutely nothing … okay maybe I could have written the article a bit better and not been so harsh on virgins … maybe …
But I still feel that virginity in Nigeria is a largely overrated and feminist phenomenon and it does more harm than good for our country. One of my most salient issues (out of many) with virgin worship is that it gives parents an excuse not to talk about sex.
And when you don’t talk about sex you create an atmosphere of dangerous secrecy! I call it dangerous because…
Hope you enjoyed it.