I got this amazingly timely mail from Stephanie Obi and I decided to share it. She also has a lot to share to help people grow and achieve their dreams. Visit her site. Meanwhile, let’s focus on this mail that made me feel like a superhero.
First things first, the reason I’m sharing this story with you is because the principle I’m about to share with you can be applied to anything in life.
You can get anything you want, if you just repeat this same principles.
In this case, I used these principles to go on a vacation this year.
I have used it countless times to get anything I want, and I’m going to share “my secret” with you so that you can also apply them in your life, to get anything you want.
The first thing is to ask yourself, “What do you really want?”
At the beginning of the year, I asked myself this same question, and I was very clear about the answer.
It’s funny, but this question is a very simple question.
The problem is…most people skip it.
Either because we are looking at what other people are doing, and we think that we also want what they have, or we get so busy chasing one thing or the other, or looking after one person or the other, and before you know it, life literally passes us by.
If you do this right now…
Take a piece of paper and a biro and write down exactly what you want, you will find that opportunities will start opening up before you. You will start meeting the right people, you will start learning about materials that can help you achieve your dreams, everything will just start working out.
I honestly believe that God responds to clarity.
The second step is to be clear about WHY you want it.
If the reason you want what you want is not strong enough, you won’t have the motivation to pursue it.
In pursuing what you want, you are going to get frustrated, you will see so many challenges, things are not going to turn out the way you planned…it is the “WHY” that keeps you going.
If for instance you want to earn five hundred thousand Naira a month, because you want to be able to send your children to good schools, take them on vacation, give them the best in life. You will find that the love you have for your children will be so strong, no challenge can break that love. You will keep pushing until something comes through.
If you can figure these 2 questions out, you will be unstoppable.
This mail inspired me greatly and I felt it will be generous to share it with you. I hope you learned something. Stephanie Obi is a great inspiration.