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I read a book recently and I thought I should share some thoughts with you. I contained a great secret of life.

You’ve probably been sitting there wondering, “what is the secret?” I’ll tell you how I have to understand it. We all work with one infinite power. we all guide ourselves by exactly the same laws. The natural laws of the universe are so precise that we don’t even have any difficulty  building spaceships, we can send people to the moon and we can time landing with the precision of a fraction of a second.

Wherever you are- India, Australia, New Zealand, Stockholm, London, Toronto, Montreal, New York, or Nigeria- we’re all working with one power. One law. It’s attraction!!! (Bob Proctor)

The Secret is the law of attraction!

Everything that’s coming to your life you are attracting into your life. And it’s attracted by virtue of the images you’re holding in your mind. It’s what you’re thinking. Whatever is going on in your mind, you are attracting to you.

Every thought of yours is a real thing- A FORCE (Prentice Mulford)

All I’m saying is the more you think about that thing, the more you attract it to yourself, positive or negative. Think positive thoughts and positive things and people will naturally get magnetized to you. Dream big dreams and bask in the thoughts of it. You’d feel more inclined to work towards them and the people you need for it’s accomplishment would come naturally.



THE TIME WHEEL: A fun way to manage your time

*wide grin* Hi, hope you are having a wonderful day? Well I am and I thought I should share my latest discovery with you. On one of my internet escapades I found something and I think you might find it interesting:

Introducing my latest internet site discovery… *plays theme song, drum rolls*


You’ll have to click to view what it is all about and I think you should visit this site. It’ll teach you great life lessons with the simplest words and illustration. I stumbled on this post by Erin Greenwald titled The Easiest Way to See If You’re Spending Your Time Right  and I saw this activity, tried, saw how much of an eye opener it was and I thought to myself, why don’t I share it with you. You should try it too. Then try it again after a week and then a month and see how much improvement you are making at managing your time. Let’s call it the Time Management Wheel.


All you need for this activity is a crayon or marker or different pen colors or you can be creative and use patterns (dots, thin stripes, thick stripes, deep shading, light shading with pencil and pen) or even your lipstick 🙂 . Just ensure you have something to differentiate each activity with.

Give each activity a unique color in each hour of the circle based on the activity you usually fill that time with. YOU CAN START!

And hey… My book comes out in May, 2014 “THE DIAMOND OF LIFE” by BLESSING ABENG






If you missed the preview of the ongoing project Click


The mission is to see Love through your eyes and different articles, letters, notes etcetera would be posted daily to see love via diverse lenses. Express yourself via letters, notes, experiences… Tell us how you view love by sending your view to


Today we,ll be focusing on Chidi’s (The LexAsh) view

It’s easy to miss the concept that is Love and use it interchangeably with like. You can’t love without the source. God is Love. So, u have to have God before u can truly Love. To Love now is to give another person the “God” experience, Liking them unconditionally and caring for them to the point of your own expense. Love is stupid… by man’s rational standards, but it is the wisest by the supposed to be standards. it is everything in itself and more. Giving, sharing, caring, that’s all part, particles of it’s full essence. I hope we understand, because not many of us can actually die for others and that’s the ultimate test of Love. The Sacrifice of Self.

-Chidi Ashimole

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Contact Chidi or Follow Him on Twitter @thelexash


Be A Part of this February Project, Visit FEBRUARY PROJECT for more information


My sweet baby,
As this pen touches this paper, smiles takeover my face and heart. Overwhelming joy and warmth fills me. God chose me to be the shelter for you for nine months and I’m glad that he finally sent my own angel to me to cool me off in the midst of the fire of earth. My love, you are a blessing and I treasure you. You saved me from shape and restored my dark clouds. I’m sure you’re confused. Ids explain:
Your father and I were so in love. They say all men are the same but he was a unique breed, different from anyone I have ever met. If there was a word that could separate him from the human race, I think “Angel” would suit him perfectly. He had a big heart. We got married and lived happily until dark clouds rested on our roof. His family harassed me constantly because I couldn’t bear a child for their son. They never really accepted me into the family because I was poor. My mother died while giving birth to me. When I was 16 my father died of cancer because we didn’t have sufficient money for the hospital bills. My uncle took care of me till I met your father. He became everything to me in spite of his family’s opinion about me. He never loved me less, he didn’t cheat and he never left my side. He dried my tears and encouraged me. In the midst of our trips to the hospital to find a solution to my bareness, the doctor discovered I had an ovarian cancer. We decided to take the risk of operation.
It’s been 10years since I got married. The operation took place 8years ago and just when I was about giving up, you came my way. I am so happy that you are here with me now. I know everyday you’ll wonder where your father is, he died two months after we received the good news that I was finally pregnant in a car crash. Too bad he won’t witness your birth but I’m sure he’ll always look out for you from wherever he is.
Don’t be sad my child, you have me. I’d never leave your side. Anytime you need me I’d be there. I’d be your mother, father, sister, brother, playmate, best friend and anything you want if only you let me. I won’t let you slip into the wrong path because I care too much to lose you to the evil claws of “pampering”. I love you. Words are not enough to communicate how I feel about your presence in my life. Life has dealt with me but it handed me a precious gift to wipe away my sorrows, YOU. Remember never to give up on life. Don’t Quit! You are the ruler of your world and what becomes of it is determined by what you create in it. Never let challenges weigh you down. Depend totally on God because even when everyone leaves and everything fails, he’ll be there. Control your mind and you’ll be able to control your world. Never let people determine your path for you. Follow your passion. You are a brave child and you’ll succeed in all you do. I will always be here to support you whenever you need me, until God feels it’s time for me to go. I love you.
Yours forever,
Your Mum (would be any other thing for you).



The Sun

There was a contest and I decided to try it. I was required to write a poem of 3lines called 5-7-5. Which means:
1st line should contain – 5syllables
2nd line- 7syllables
3rd line- 5syllables

This is what I came up with:
The Sun by @ms_Einsteinette via @FanStory

Please read, share, tell us what you can infere from it. Share your thoughts and you could try 5-7-5poem in the comment box too.

The speaking feet project…GREASE : THE NAIJA MIX

You think you’ve heard and seen it all, well, you are about to be swept off your feet with something much more than you’ve ever imagined!!!


The Speaking feet project is a dance theatre project aimed at providing jobs for young talented dance /theatre performers by providing entertainment avenues for show casing their talent.
The project is an initiative of The Krump Dance Studios Abuja, a recognized and registered dance studio which specializes in dance fitness, dance training and dance theatre and entertainment.

The Maiden production of The Speaking Feet Project is Grease: The Naija Mix, the first full length dance theatre production in Abuja. Based on the 1970’s classic Grease starring John Travolta and Olivia Newton John, the production aims to recreate fond memories re-telling the story but set in Nigeria in the 70’s. With a blend of original scores, grease favorites and fresh choreography, Grease: The Naija Mix promises to be a must watch for the month of August.
The production aims to entertain and expose the Nigerian audience to various forms of performing arts outside mainstream entertainment. It also intends to create platform for dancers pursuing a professional career in the competitive yet limited entertainment market. Most importantly though, we aim to produce exportable art and create an international brand made up young Nigerian talent.

Date: 24th of August, 2013

Proposed Venue: NUC Viewing Hall, 26, Aguiyi Ironsi Street Maitama Abuja

Tickets: 2500 (regular), 5,000 (VIP)

Grease Tees: 3,500

Follow us on
Twitter: @krumpstudios. Or @isysdrain
Official hash tag – (#Grease:The Naija Mix)
Facebook: facebook/the krump dance studios

For Enquiries call:
07035686227, 08064388746
Tickets are already available!!! Get yours now!!!
Don’t miss this!!!

Hearing the story from a friend will never be enough, so… BE THERE!!!