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                                                                          My Inner Core,

                                                              My Soul,

                                                                My Heart,

                                                                                  Exactly where I am,


Dear Crush,

Normal people would start by asking how you are and your family and all that junk that they really don’t care about but honestly, I couldn’t care less!!! I don’t care at all!!! Why should I? The formality is unnecessary. You’ve ruined ME!!! I never thought I’d ever be in a tight corner like this, a corner where I breathe and do not breathe at the same time.

This can’t be infatuation, it should be love because if it is not love. I wonder what love is and I don’t want to experience it!!! Ok…If I must experience it, it should be with you. I cannot understand living in a world where you do not exist. It hurts when I see you and I can’t have you. I know you do not think about me as much as I think of you. I know you do not think of me at all but I can’t reciprocate that action ‘cuz all I do is think about you. I imagine the time the Creator spends making you. I know He always puts a new touch on you everyday to retain your ever fresh perfection. Who said no one is perfect? I don’t blame them, they’ve not met you. I love the sweetness you exude, your scent, your beauty, your diversity…

No I can’t continue… Grab an umbrella because the wetness dripping from this mushy talk can cause a storm. You make me happy when I see and have you, sad when I don’t. You make me better, you make me worse. You are my bad habit and my best company… you send a commotion of feelings and emotions through my life. I am crazy… I know but I’m crazy in love with you. I am not bothered about you reading this because you can’t.

To my Crush that has crushed me- Chocolate Cake.

To me you are perfect.

#M2E metrres to eden and einsteinette

Yours Crushingly,



February: The Surface Scratch

Hi!!! It’s a new edition of Meet Einsteinette. Click ” Meet Einsteinette” to view the January edition. Well this month, the love craze was on its high again and I think I escaped the love fever or maybe I almost did…well, I’d leave that to your imagination for now, you’ll confirm it later. What’s there to know about me this month?

blessing abeng

Well, I love the color RED but it is not my best color. I love the “oldies”. I hardly let go of old songs and musicians… I am still a die hard fan of Celine Dion, Whitney Houston, Etta James, Micheal Jackson, Micheal Bolton, Patti La Belle etc… you name them… I love oldies!!! Hey I listen to new songs too and break my bones to the Nigerian songs and all but the soul oldies have my heart.

einsteinette abeng

Forgive the reds tho…I just wanted to see how it’ll look when you go all red and stuff and damn its bloody but then I’d still let you in on the picture….


I like to see beyond the surface value of things and dig for depth… I always feel there is more… so… err… expect more :p and yeah MEET MY LOVERSee you at the end of March…

And… Ife Joseph a.k.a @MyName_is (twitter handle) drew this pretty picture of me, the original picture is the featured image…. It was so awesome and I thought I should share it. Have an awesome MARCH.

pencil drawn blessing abeng by ifejoseph

Photo Credits:

Temitayo Dynamixprime Photography

Ife Joseph– The Artist

Poland – The Make-Up Artist







Who is Einsteinette?

Happy new year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its never too late to send new year greetings and we are still in January so I’m hoping you’ll forgive my late greeting. Its an awesome 2014 and i thought it will be awesome to grace my readers with full knowledge of the face and personality behind Einsteinette. So for the rest of the year, every month, there’ll be a new face unveiling a side of Einsteinette. Well, it will be my face throughout but you get to see what i like to do, who i am etc…

100 blind men were asked to describe an elephant by feeling a part of it. The part that was felt varied and there were 100 definitions of the same elephant. 1 said it was soft and  another said it was hard, others came up with different concepts ranging from short, long, huge, small etc. If they had eyes, they’ll have seen the whole elephant and described it perfectly. I am leaving the shadows and standing on the stage, unveiling the girl behind the curtains


January:  Who is Einsteinette?

Before you bite your tongue, the name is pronounced as Ein-styn-net. It means female Einstein as well as social geek. Einsteinette is a brand name that has become a personality. My birth name is Blessing Abeng.

abeng blessing blessingabeng blessing einsteinette abeng I celebrate my birthday every 16th of October and… that’s all for this month… at the end of February and every other month ahead I promise to tell you a lot more.


Photographer: Dynamix Prime

Make-Up: Poland

Shoes: Things Nigerians Love 

Contributors: Jola’s Pixel Photography and Komcepts Design Studio

Don’t miss your chance to be part of my fabulous give away, Click on WIN A PRIZE now!!! If you have questions or anything you want to ask me,  CONTACT ME  or follow me on twitter @ms_einsteinette. Have a fab month.







Hi beautiful people, its another weekend. Thank God its friday. We will continue our discussion on helpful tips to improve relationships. If you missed the first part click THE FOUNDATION OF ANY RELATIONSHIP

To harness the be best out of any relationship and to build solid relationships with our family, friends, lovers etc. you have to build yourself first.

  • Be consistent. Some weaknesses are born out of bad habits. Letting go of bad habits take consistency and strong will. No habit is innate (inborn). Every habit was picked up in one way or the other. We are all responsible for our habits whether good or bad. Constant repetition births a habit. Bad habits are easy to develop but difficult to live with. Practice good habits. We do not need miracles we need better habits.
  • Write down your dreams and Goals. This gives you a sense of direction and inspires you. It gives you a reason for constant communion with self. If you do not know where you are going, you will be unable to get there.
  • Define yourself and standards. Know what you should and shouldn’t do. Where to be found and where not to be found, the kind of friends to keep etc. if you lack standards (S.I units), no one will place a value on you or identify your placement. You’ll be just another floating number. A very random one.
  • Understand your personality and let it shine through. Your personality is a distinguishing factor that is unique to you alone.
  • Be confident in yourself. Trust yourself and believe in yourself. Trust strengthens marriages, friendships, etc. and will definitely strengthen self love.
  • Never let people define or discourage you. No matter what you do people will always criticize. Accept good criticism and discard the chaff. Live for yourself and not for people. Life is too short to waste trying to please people. See gossips as jobless but necessary publicist with the duty of increasing the world’s knowledge of you.
  • Have positive dialogue with yourself. Think positive thoughts. You are who you think you are. Counter and dispel negative thinking. You will never rise above the image you have of yourself.
  • Don’t let your pasts or mistakes define you. Learn from your mistakes and past experiences, don’t wallow in self pity or hide in its shadow. Your mistakes should strengthen your innovative capacity. Think up new ways of doing things.  Your pasts should motivate and challenge you. Be better so you can save people the stress of making the same mistakes you’ve made. Inspire someone to be a success with your success with your success story.
  • Speak to your hearing. When you speak, hear and believe something, you unconsciously walk and work towards it. The more you hear and say a thing, the easier it is to believe and embody it. Speak words to strengthen yourself.
  • Eliminate atelophobia. Atelophobia is the fear of not being good enough or imperfection or  an extreme fear of failing to achieve perfection. ELIMINATE IT!!!
  • Complement yourself and acknowledge yourself when you do something good.
  • Take yourself out on a treat.


Practice the following and watch the quality of your relationships elevate. Have an awesome weekend.

Photo credits: David Adelakun (Taiwo Adelakun Photography)

Model: Ojiyovbi Ebasa