In the last couple of weeks I have struggled with the definition of what love is. Theology has it’s bases for grouping love into words like Agape…..lol but the hard knock life that we find ourselves in makes love loose all it’s holiness and purity. Love can be defined as Loyalty to a cause, but with this new trend of selfishness this to makes void the meaning of what love is . The world is very different now and the simple minded suffer from the consequences of this new status quo. “Remember……. Remember……. the 14th of February” St Valentines Day. The day Dedicated to Lovers or should i dare to say ” the Day payment…hahaha how can I be so insensitive and say this? Am I trying to insinuate that Love now comes at a cost? Well maybe-maybe not , it might just be that people now use this date as a day to set the standards, for what the value of love should be or Cost .
The February Project of Love is now well planned and thought out throughout the year. It is the National Day of Red, which for some might mean passion but to may others the indulging in wine(*failed attempt at humor). Innocence is now lost to this as Lust becomes the driving force for many, but not all are ensnared by this Trend as some individuals find out what love can be and is through genuine sacrifice and display of affection.
This is my own February Project and it’s called Naladise : The sun continues to shine on me for i have found joy in loving, To be totally honest I have never fully understood what love is, I have come to know that with each passing day the meaning of Love evolves for loves own sake
Satisfaction gotten from accessing this knowledge allows us to embrace peace of mind, this is more filling than a cup of happiness
Looking back now; I have no regrets about the past, with all the love lost or even the lust for nothing teaches like having gone through and gaining experience
I asked myself the very famous questions about what love should be about and the very essence of the February Project (Valentines day)?
Should it not be a day to appreciate all those that put out their necks for us? A time to appreciate, all those that were there when we were down and out, I believe that we are missing the point, and that if we continue to market and sell this day as just a day to be ostentatious; we would be mortgaging one of the best days dedicated for sincerity for cheep feeling of temporary euphoria
Every romantic bone in my body is yearning and longing to appreciate you Nala, I can’t wait to show to you how much I care about how you have kept Simba sane, words are just not enough so I would show you in grand style.
Beauty in a woman should not just be about looks but about personality, passion and dedication to constant improvement and also friendship.
Getting it wrong with you scares me a lot but I believe that not taking a chance is worse so this is it, we are taking a trip, let’s let the sails of passion follow the tide as we gaze onto the future we en vision with our hands held together locked in as one.
Why be a king if you have no queen to share your kingdom with, why acquire much territory as a man if you have no proverbs 31 woman to manage it with and for you.
I know that I don’t have it all planned out, nor have I come to grasp the whole concept of love but you have given me a reason to work at it, to strive for perfection, to head in the right way and path.
I am glad I made it to Naladise
Nala my Idea of A-you